Still Sober

    Still sober but working the 4th step is difficult for me. It brings back a flood of memories that upset me at times. Letting them go, they're in the past. Another small problem I have is explaining what I'm going through to the woman I'm in a relationship with. It's hard for her to understand that when I got sober the battle wasn't over, that I have to work my program everyday. Thinking about asking her if she would be willing to attend ALANON for a while.